Posts Tagged: autobiography


15
Jul 09

REVIEW: Boy by Roald Dahl

boy-tales-of-childhood-by-roald-dahlI am now an official Roald Dahl fan! ‘Boy: Tales of Childhood’ is a sort of autobiography as the book covers the periodRoald Dahl was born in the South of Wales (his parents are Norwegian) and how his life changed when his father died, leaving his mother to care for 3 sisters, ‘an ancient half-sister’, a half-brother and him.

His summer holidays in Norway are really interesting and the incident involving the ‘ancient half-sister’s pompous boyfriend’ will make you laugh!

Dahl notes how impressed he was (I’m sure many mothers would be too today) at how his mother makes the travel and hotel arrangements in Norway for the huge family all the way from Wales. We REALLY shouldn’t complain about holiday planning now with the phone, internet and email…

Poor Dahl suffers greatly when he’s enrolled at an English boarding school (which his mother insists on, in honour of his late father’s wish).

The boarding school you read about in ‘Boy: Tales of Childhood’ is ENTIRELY DIFFERENT from the wonderful, romantic scenes from Enid Blyton’s boarding school stories.

At school, Dahl and his friends get ‘paddled’ on the butt, neglected (a boy actually died from a cold) and even having his weekly letters home cunningly monitored (and of course, censored by the boys themselves) by the business-minded headmaster, who later became the Archbishop of Canterbury!

This is one of the reasons Dahl is disillusioned by the idea of religion…how can someone who has been so cruel to kids become a head of a religious institution that preaches kindness and compassion???

Since his mother has no real idea of what goes on in school, she can only send weekly homemade goodies. Reading Dahl’s experiences will remind parents NOT to be too trusting of school authorities especially as those in administration tend to paint a brilliant, bright picture of what goes on in school…I know I’ll never send my children to boarding school (not that I can afford it anyway!)

Besides school stories, I was *truly horrified* when I read about his tonsillectomy without anaesthesia. People at that time really suffered without modern medicine. Definitely for readers aged 12 and above…

In case I’ve painted a bleak picture of ‘Boy: Tales of Childhood’, I’m sorry. The book has funny and fascinating segments (the trick played on the miserly Mrs. Pratchett, the sweet shop owner; his letters home; his travels to Africa when he worked with Shell…).

After all, if I’m now Dahl’s No. 1 fan, the book must be a good read, right? Absolutely – especialy for summer reading!!!

Rating: ★★★★☆


11
May 08

REVIEW: Still Me by Christopher Reeve

When I read that Christopher Reeve became completely paralyzed after he fell off a horse in 1995, I was shocked. Who wouldn’t be? After all, he was Superman. He could turn back time. He could bring Lois Lane back to life. He could freeze fire. He could fit 3 bad aliens into a thin sheet of glass.

I immediately bought his autobiography the moment it was released 3 years after his accident. What I love most about autobiographies is the insight you get of a celebrity – that behind each and every shiny star is a walking, waking human behind it.

I read in “Still Me” that Superman (just like his persona) loves to joke. He loves horses.

He had 2 wives and his second one, Dana, stood by him from the moment of his injury till his very last day. That was his greatest fear – to be left alone by the one he loved. He prepared for it and he also suffered from a great deal of insecurity. He acknowledged that he is one of luckiest man on earth.

His kids are beautiful! His son, Matthew, is as handsome as him and his daughter, Al, is a real beauty. His youngest, Will, looks like a cheeky little boy.

I enjoyed reading about his early days on stage (real drama, not TV) and his endearing friendship with Robin Williams.

He was also an arts activist – he led a rally to support 77 Chilean actors, directors, and playwrights sentenced to death by the dictator Augusto Pinochet for criticizing his regime in their works. With the media coverage, their death sentences were cancelled. He’d saved their lives!

For someone who had everything going for him – looks, love, success, fatherhood – the fall must have been devastating. Thankfully, he picked up the pieces and moved on to switch roles from actor to director, speaker to writer, victim to activist…

He never stopped living – or loving. Despite his divorce, he maintained close ties with his children and this is evident from the loving relationship his new family had with each other. It’s not every day you read about kids from a first marriage getting on with mother/child from a second marriage.

I remember watching him appear on TV for the Emmy awards with my father. One of my favourite movies is “Somewhere in Time” where he co-starred with Jane Seymour, one of my parents’ favourite actresses.

I remember Hubby searching the original VCD for me as a surprise present. I still have it!

We all felt sad when Superman died in 2004. While we may know him as Superman, we’re now more aware of spinal cord injuries after what happened to him. Through his work, his life and his struggle, Christopher Reeve (baby nickname “Tophy”) showed us that he really was the Man of Steel.

Read the autobiography of “Superman”

Still Me by Christopher Reeve
ISBN: 0-345-43241-X


17
Feb 08

REVIEW: Redneck Woman: Stories from my life

This new release in 2008 was one of the nice presents Hubby brought back from the US for me and I couldn’t wait to read it, especially after skimming the blurb.

The term “redneck” is a very strong slur in the US, especially in the Midwest and I’ve always been mystified by what it means, even though my American colleagues tried their best to explain it to me, albeit in politically-correct terms.

In summary, it refers to the poorer whites (cruelly known as “white trash”) who live in the rural areas e.g. the characters from the old sitcom the “Beverly Hillbillies”.

Teen marriages, domestic violence, moonshine, “wife beater” shirts (red, long-sleeved, plaid shirts), chewing tobacco and incest are frequently associated with this group, other than poverty and trailer parks.

Gretchen Wilson, one of America’s top country singers, tells her own tale about first, being a “redneck” and second, being a woman in this maligned community. She recalls the story of her life with Allen Rucker, her co-author, but succeeds in keeping the tone of the book as brutally honest as she sets it out to be.

I really enjoyed reading this autobiography and was very curious about WHEN Gretchen would actually get her moment in time in Nashville.

Growing up in the tiny town of Pocahontas, Illinois, she has an endless string of bad beginnings:

  • she was born to a 16 year old Mom;
  • her father left her family when she was 2;
  • her mum married an abusive stepfather;
  • her stepfather was a conman, which resulted in her family having to move all over the place;
  • she and her stepbrother being the “new kids” in school 100s of times;
  • her grandfather was an alcoholic, stingy racist and the list goes on…
  • Just one-third into the Redneck Woman, I can imagine how hard and bitter she and her stepbrother would have become by the time they reached their teens. As she’s only 1 year older than me, I’m surprised they hadn’t made the headlines earlier for a school shooting or another form of violent crime!

    The saving grace is Gretchen’s grandmother, Frances, who is a thrifty, kind, animal & plant-loving woman even though she married and lived with the most horrible man imaginable on earth.

    I almost shed tears when I read the part about Grandma Frances’ simple “wishlist”, one of which is to have a cleaning lady come just ONCE to clear their house. Not once a month or once a week – just one time.

    Even so, Gretchen couldn’t take the madness of moving to avoid her stepfather’s angry clients that she dropped out of high school at 15. She worked as a waitress and a bartender and would have stuck to the common 2-job life of a “redneck woman” if not for her talent for singing.

    Her belief in herself kept her bartending for money, pulled her through alcoholism and held her through a long plateau of small gigs before she actually struck gold in Nashville, the Hollywood for country music.

    A true creative, she accepted any singing assignments she was given, regardless of the genre as long as she could sing – this proved really useful as she achieved amazing control over her voice. Be it the blues, country, pop or rock, she could sing it!

    I rejoiced in her success when she finally got her first contract and also shared her sadness when Grandma Frances died before Gretchen made it big. I sense her sincerity and understand her desires in wanting to be the best mother and to give the best to her own daughter, Grace.

    Similarly, I can appreciate the fact that she also wants Grace to know her humbled roots and this Gretchen succeeds by inviting her family members to be part of her success.

    Also, despite rolling in riches now, she maintains her old lifestyle of cleaning up at her own little home and also allows her kin to continue with the “country” ways they are used to.

    I was quite inspired after reading about Gretchen and as she says so at the beginning (adding also that she doesn’t mean to belittle the redneck way of life), she hopes that her life story will inspire any woman or “redneck woman” out there who thinks that she’s stuck with a bad deal in her life.

    This book is a refreshing, informative perspective on the concept of being a “redneck”. At times I would have wanted more details about the life of a bartender or the hardships of rural America but I have to remember that this is, after all, Gretchen’s autobiography.

    Rating: ★★★☆☆

    Buy the book:

    The only pop culture I can recall revolving around the “redneck” theme are:

    “A Painted House” by John Grisham (the book) and

    “A Painted House” by John Grisham (the movie)

    “The Baby Dance” – a Hallmark movie starring Stockard Channing & Laura Dern

    Any other good books I should be checking out on this theme?

    Redneck Woman: Stories from my life by Gretchen Wilson & Allen Rucker
    Publisher: Grand Central Publishing
    (ISBN: 978-0446401234)


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